This year was filled with all the good things and all the, well not so good things. So we will call it a very “well rounded” year.
I feel like it’s only appropriate that I take a minute to sit back and think. What are the things that I feel like I really nailed? And the things that I feel like I really failed.
And no, I am not afraid to tell you that there are some areas that I, like totally biffed it failed, this year. It’s reality. We all do it. How am I going to learn and grow unless I am willing to see where I need to do better next time?
So first off, where I nailed it.
I feel like this year I did a pretty bang up job of learning how to batch my work. Multitasking meant I got a bunch of things done, sure, but not exceptionally well, and definitely not exceptionally efficiently. I used to wear my multitasking abilities as some kind of badge of honor. But then I kept catching all my mistakes, or worse yet, having others catch all my mistakes. And this just created more work for them to fix.
Batching my work has given me so much freedom. It allows me to put all my focus in one area and get stuff done. Yes, I know there are times that I frustrate people because this means that I don’t hardly ever allow interruptions, but in the end it allows me to create better work and faster.
It has also meant that I work really hard at keeping a schedule and prioritized to do list. This majorly helps me keep my sanity.
For instance, this week we decided last minute to go to the family retreat home that our extended family has in Missouri the day after Christmas. And while we were there I got sick and I am honestly still recovering from it. This absolutely threw me. My schedule got majorly thrown and all the work that I knew I had to get done before the first of the year just sat there.
So here I sit today, trying not to panic as I get this blog post written reminding myself that the world will not end if there are a few things that I have to carry over into next year. I can batch that work on Wednesday!
But where have I failed?
I have failed at saying no. I chased a lot of shiny objects this year and wanted to keep trying new things. That meant that I spent a whole lot of time on things that I just shouldn’t have.
And it’s not that I didn’t learn and grow from those things,. But I always tell people, “When you say yes to something it means you are saying no to something else.” So, as I look back I lament all the things that I ultimately said no to. I’m over here just filling my time and energy with the things that I said yes to but shouldn’t have.
Better boundaries in all areas of my life was what I needed and that saying no to someone is absolutely ok. I couldn’t give my all to all the things, so I settled and gave myself some to Adore Your Business, some to Adore Bridal, some to my kids, some to my husband and some to my church.
I don’t want to give some to those things, I want to give my all. Even if that means I have to do less things. Nope, scratch that. Who am I kidding? I don’t ever plan on doing less things I just plan on doing more focused things!
I could keep going, I would love to keep going. There are so many more nailed it and failed it things!
But what’s more important to me is what’s next.
I am so looking forward to 2019. In Adore Bridal it has recently become clear to me where I need my focus to be, in Adore Your Business the same and well my family life too….but more on that next week.
What are your nailed it and failed it reflections for 2018?